Comments on: Dates

By: Bari

Bari — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 18:13:12 +0000

I didn’t know. I am sorry, but more people need to be as positive as you, that is for sure. Me included! Give a snuggle to my two furry friends!

By: AV Flox

AV Flox — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 13:27:11 +0000

Jane, I am sorry to hear about the divorce. My (now ex-) husband and I filed as well in May. It’s a difficult thing. But I am glad to see you are well and have this attitude. I share that with you. While difficult, it brings with it many lessons and much growth.

I’m here if you need someone to talk to.

By: Lucy

Lucy — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 20:17:43 +0000

There is not shame in divorce. Better to divorce and save your sanity than to try to stick it out and lose your mind. It’s not worth it. Mike has been divorced for approx. 7 years. They got married too young. He fell deeply in love but it was mostly one sided. Very sad because it took him a long time to get over it. Not sure if he’s 100% over it now but he’s much better than what he was. After his divorce and sale of home, he was on his own for a while but ended up moving back home. It was supposed to be for only a little while but it’s been 4 years and my husband and I are more than ready for him to move on. I think he’s nearly ready too. Although if I had all the perks he has of living for free with no chores, I’d stay as long as I could too.
You have a lot to offer and some day you’ll meet the right person who will appreciate how wonderful you are and treasure you. Until that day, just keep doing what you’re doing because it’s pretty great.

By: louann

louann — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 02:53:48 +0000

That is perfect faith. I admire your optimism and I know you will have greater things to look forward to.

By: Griffith Girls

Griffith Girls — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:52:07 +0000

I’m so honored to know you and am amzed every day how you handle yourself with such grace – we could all take a lesson!

By: Chrissy

Chrissy — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 04:59:12 +0000

Jane, it seems like ages since we first “met” when you left me a comment from your Mama Doggy Love blog. It amazes me to see all the changes and experiences we’ve both gone through in the past few years. You were my first “blog friend”! LOL!

Your positive thoughts always carried me through whatever it was I was going through. I just know that this same positive attitude will get you through any challenges or difficult times you may face.

I’ve said this a zillion and one times, but you are so very talented, intelligent, beautiful, friendly, funny, kind, thoughtful, strong, and every other positive adjective I can think of! I have no doubt at all that you will have every happiness in the world

Every experience we have, whether positive or negative, teaches us valuable lessons. I know it sounds really cliche, but it’s true. I was in a 5 yr relationship that ended in a not so pretty break up. I was crushed, disillusioned, and down right devastated. I didn’t handle things with the finess and grace you are handling things. Then one day, I decided to let go. I decided it was futile to harp over the ‘why’s and the ‘what could have been’s. Sometimes things just aren’t meant to be and there’s no sense in dwelling. I ended up doing things for ME and I started to ‘live’ again. I had wonderful support from family and friends. Life was good. Then I met Hubby and two years later, we’ve got our precious Little One.

Things do happen for a reason. Lessons are never in shortage. I’ve learned that we learn a lot about ourselves, our values, what we want, and what we deserve.

Wow! Sorry this is such a LONG comment! I initially meant to say that I luv ya and am always thinking of ya! XOXO

By: Real Life Sarah

Real Life Sarah — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:43:09 +0000

You truly are an inspiration, in your outlook on life. I’m praying you are lead through this with grace and peace.

By: To Think Is To Create

To Think Is To Create — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:08:55 +0000

**squeeze**

Big hug from me to you.

By: Mommy Niri

Mommy Niri — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 19:55:01 +0000

I agree wholeheartedly, getting to where we are is because of where we have been. I firmly believe if it does not kill you it make you a better (and stronger) person.

By: Dad

Dad — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 15:53:20 +0000

Jane,
Have I ever told you how much I love you and how proud I am to be your Father? Oh, I have, at least a million times you say…oh, ok…
sorry for repeating myself, but I can’t help it!
I love you.
Dad